Recently, I have heard some disturbing things that to most, may not seem so disturbing. At the end of a sermon on God’s grace, spiritual gifts, and some other things, a youth pastor addressed some students saying,
I know some of you have tough questions like ‘If God is love, then why does he allow all of these bad things to happen?’ or ‘How can God love someone like me?’ I don’t have all of the answers, but I do know that God is love and I understand where you are.
Leaving a group of students (12-18 years old) with questions like these posed, and not offering a real answer is a tragic happening that occurs too often in the Church. Too often, when there are real answers to these tough questions. In all that happens in this world, from the death of family to the suffering of friends, we have to realize that we serve a God who is sovereign over all things. One comment by John Piper begins to bring all of this into perspective:
If we try to rescue God from his sovereignty and take away from him his involvement in the pain that just came in to our lives, we also lose God’s present power to turn the pain for good. The price of denying God his sovereignty over pain is too high to pay, and people can see that.
So where do we turn when a our friend is killed in a car crash, or our grandfather is killed by negligence in a hospital? What does God say to us in His revelation, the Word?
And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. 29 For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brethren; 30 and these whom He predestined, He also called; and these whom He called, He also justified; and these whom He justified, He also glorified. 31 What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who is against us? 32 He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him over for us all, how will He not also with Him freely give us all things? Romans 8:28-32
God causes all things to work together for the good. Paul does not say that all things are good, but that God turns all things to good. So regardless if something bad does happen, we can trust in this promise, that God is working. So why does God allow these bad things: rape, abuse, death, sickness. These are questions that may not be answered easily. It make take long hours of studying Scripture, and it may take many weeks to preach sermons explaining these things. Realizing and understanding a few things will make this easier I feel.
God does harden hearts, and through his prophets he predicts sinful human actions long in advance, indicating that he is in control of human free decisions.
It is [God] who created, preserves, actuates and directs all things. But it by no means follows, from these premises, that God is therefore the cause of sin, for sin is nothing but anomia, illegality, want of conformity to the divine law (1 John 3:4), a mere privation of rectitude; consequently, being itself a thing purely negative, it can have no positive or efficient cause, but only a negative or deficient one, as several learned men have observed.
When I started writing this, my aim was to keep it simple, but I now see I could go on forever. So, I will try to simply say God is sovereign.
This simply refers to the fact that all things are under His rule and control, and that nothing happens in this Universe without His direction or permission. He is a God Who works, not just some things, but all things after the counsel of His own will (Eph. 1:11). God’s purpose is all-inclusive and is never thwarted (Isa. 46:11). Nothing Takes Him by Surprise
It is not merely that God has the power and right to govern all things but that He does so always and without exception. – John Piper
-God is sovereign over angels & Satan: Ps 103:20-21; Job 1:12
-God is sovereign over human beings: 1 Sam 2:6-7; Gal 1:15-16
-God is sovereign over free acts of men: Ex 3:21; 12:25-36; Ez 7:27
-God is sovereign over sinful acts of men and Satan: 2 Sam 24:1; 1 Chr 21:1; Gen 45:5 and 50:20
Granted there is no easy answer the questions we began with, but there is an answer. I will leave you with the answer given by Jonathan Edwards when approached with something similar.
It is a proper and excellent thing for infinite glory to shine forth; and for the same reason, it is proper that the shining forth of God’s glory should be complete; that is, that all parts of his glory should shine forth, that every beauty should be proportionably effulgent, that the beholder may have a proper notion of God. It is not proper that one glory should be exceedingly manifested, and another not at all. . .
Thus it is necessary, that God’s awful majesty, his authority and dreadful greatness, justice, and holiness, should be manifested. But this could not be, unless sin and punishment had been decreed; so that the shining forth of God’s glory would be very imperfect, both because these parts of divine glory would not shine forth as the others do, and also the glory of his goodness, love, and holiness would be faint without them; nay, they could scarcely shine forth at all.
If it were not right that God should decree and permit and punish sin, there could be no manifestation of God’s holiness in hatred of sin, or in showing any preference, in his providence, of godliness before it. There would be no manifestation of God’s grace or true goodness, if there was no sin to be pardoned, no misery to be saved from. How much happiness soever he bestowed, his goodness would not be so much prized and admired. . . .
So evil is necessary, in order to the highest happiness of the creature, and the completeness of that communication of God, for which he made the world; because the creature’s happiness consists in the knowledge of God, and the sense of his love. And if the knowledge of him be imperfect, the happiness of the creature must be proportionably imperfect.